What We Actually Used
The liturgy as it was actually led on Sunday 16th August 2026 — Roger leading, Lynette reading, Richard preaching. The full liturgy is here.
How the toolkit held up:
- Spill the Beans was the win. Section 4 called it a direct hit, and it was — three of the four prayers came straight out of Issue 47: the Call to Worship, the Prayers for Others, and the Offering prayer. That’s the single most useful thing this toolkit did.
- But it named the file without opening it. That same Spill the Beans issue carries its own hymn list for the week — As a fire is meant for burning, God weeps, For the world and all its people, Do not turn away the children — and section 5 went off and suggested three entirely different songs instead. If the resource is good enough to lift three prayers from, its music is worth surfacing too.
- Mark 10 never got read. The toolkit gave both readings equal weight; the service used Genesis 39 alone. Which means section 8’s tip — pause before you read the divorce text — was advice for a moment that never came.
- Though Mark 10 turned up anyway, in the prayers. The Prayers for Others are built almost entirely around marriage breakdown, betrayal, and the scars of difficult relationships. So the divorce reading shaped the pastoral heart of the service without ever being read from the lectern. Worth knowing that a dropped reading doesn’t necessarily leave the room.
- Songs: none of the three suggestions were used. Not Blessed Be Children, not Do Justice, not There is a line of women. What was sung: Come, Come, Come (Walk As One #6), I Come to You (Hannah Brown), Come Walk With Me (Walk As One #66), and In a Church That’s Moving Forward (Walk As One #96). The music that actually did the work was Lior’s “Avinu Malkeinu (Hymn of Compassion)” in the centring — which fed the sermon as well. The sung material came almost entirely out of Walk As One.
- The frame came from the opening prayer, not from here. “Help us to have compassion for others… may this compassion lead us toward liberation” — Richard’s own words, and compassion into liberation is exactly where the sermon landed too. The toolkit framed the week around coercion and consent. Compassion→liberation wasn’t in it anywhere.
- For next time: mine the Spill the Beans file properly rather than just pointing at it, keep song suggestions inside Walk As One and the congregation’s own books, and don’t assume both readings will be used — when one gets dropped, everything built for it goes with it.
1. Encouragement
Hello, and thank you — genuinely — for saying yes to leading worship this week. Standing in front of people who trust you enough to close their eyes when you ask is real vulnerability; your voice, your nerves, your joy are all more visible than usual, and that takes courage — especially with readings as tricky as this week’s, sitting a story of coercion next to a hard teaching on divorce. You don’t need it all resolved in your heart before Sunday; you’re just being asked to help people arrive, and leave a little more held than when they came in.
If something goes sideways — a stumble, a missed cue, a silence that runs long — that’s not a failure of your leadership, just what happens when real people do something live together, and the congregation is far more forgiving than the voice in your head. Thank you for showing up for this community; that matters more than you probably feel it does on the day.
2. This Week’s Reading
Old Testament: Genesis 39:1-20 — Potiphar’s Wife. Read it on Bible Gateway (NRSVUE)
New Testament: Mark 10:2-16 — Divorce (and Jesus blessing the children, vv. 13-16). Read it on Bible Gateway (NRSVUE)
“His master’s wife cast her eyes on Joseph and said, ‘Lie with me.’ But he refused… ‘How then could I do this great wickedness and sin against God?’” (Genesis 39:7-9, abridged)
“Let the children come to me; do not stop them, for it is to such as these that the kingdom of God belongs.” (Mark 10:14, abridged)
Scripture quotations from the New Revised Standard Version, Updated Edition. Copyright © 2021 National Council of Churches of Christ in the United States of America.
3. What Richard’s Explored Before
Past sermons: A search of Richard’s sermon log turns up nothing on Genesis 39 or Mark 10:2-16 — this is new territory for Richard too. There’s a small connection worth knowing about, though: two Sundays ago (2 August), he preached on Genesis 31 — Rachel and the stolen household gods — so this is the second week running that Genesis has handed him a story built around a woman managing danger inside someone else’s household.
Past liturgies: This exact reading pair (Genesis 39:1-20 & Mark 10:2-16) has been used before — it’s filed under the label “Pentecost 11” in the resources log, which is confidently the same week-slot as this Sunday. Liturgy files exist under that same label going back several years, including one from as recently as 24 August 2025 — so there’s a decent trail of past service material to check for ideas, even though it can’t be confirmed that every one of those files used this exact pair of readings.
Where the congregation’s worship arc currently sits: This is very early days for the website’s own record-keeping — no earlier weeks have been archived there yet. From the sermon log, the most recent service before this one (2 August) sat with themes of hidden things, family tension, and trust within a household. There’s no confirmed record of what was covered on 9 August. So going into this Sunday, the congregation may still be sitting with themes of concealment and trust from a couple of weeks back — which, as it happens, rhymes gently with this week’s Genesis reading too.
4. Resources
Spill the Beans has a resource built specifically for these two readings — check the shared folder for a file along the lines of “Genesis 39-1-20 & Mark 10-2-16,” filed under Women’s Lectionary/Pentecost. This is a direct hit, well worth pulling for all-age material.
Words for Worship has several past services filed under the matching week-slot (“Pentecost 11”) across different lectionary years — a useful starting point for prayers or a call to worship, even though these weren’t confirmed to be on this exact passage.
L3 (Liturgy, Learning, Life) also has one recent file under that same week-slot, dated 24 August 2025 — again worth a look, with the same caveat.
5. Songs
Used before: Being honest here — there’s no traceable record of a specific song being used for this reading in the past. The song list itself is just an inventory of what the congregation knows, not a record of what’s been sung when, so we can’t say anything with confidence either way.
Suggestions for this week (from the congregation’s song list):
- Blessed Be Children (tune Bunessan, TiS 156) — a gentle, familiar-sounding tune paired with words that speak directly to Jesus welcoming the children in Mark 10:13-16.
- Do Justice — fits well against Joseph’s refusal to be coerced in Genesis 39; a song about standing firm and doing right even when it costs you.
- There is a line of women — a lovely fit for a week where the Old Testament reading centres, unusually, on a woman’s story and her own decisions, even a difficult one.
6. Weblinks
A few places worth a look for background on these readings — note that Richard’s lectionary runs on its own custom cycle, so searching these sites by the actual scripture reference (rather than by date) tends to work best:
- Working Preacher — solid, accessible commentary on both texts.
- Bill Loader — particularly good on both these passages, since his focus is exactly this kind of text: sexuality, gender, and relationships in scripture.
- Old Testament Lectionary (UCA) — useful specifically for the Genesis reading.
- Journey With Jesus — thoughtful, gentle weekly essays, good for the Gospel reading.
- Sacredise — liturgy-focused resources that can help shape the service as a whole.
7. Pop Culture
Songs to sit with in the lead-up to Sunday:
- “Song for Zula” — Phosphorescent. A slow-building, defiant song about refusing to let someone else’s version of love cage you in — there’s something of Joseph’s refusal to be reduced to Potiphar’s wife’s story about him in its stubborn, quiet resolve.
- “If We Were Vampires” — Jason Isbell and the 400 Unit. A tender, plainly honest song about what it actually means to commit to loving someone, knowing it won’t last forever — a gentle, non-legalistic companion to Mark’s hard teaching on marriage.
- “Holocene” — Bon Iver. Spacious and reflective, about realising how small and specific a single moment of misunderstanding or hurt can feel against the size of everything else — good for sitting quietly with either reading before Sunday.
- “Lullaby for Hugo” — Nat Bartsch. A tender solo piano piece written for a child — a lovely, wordless way to hold the warmth of Jesus welcoming the children in Mark 10:13-16.
- “Falling Apart” — Slow Pulp. About holding onto some sense of yourself while everything around you is unsettled — fits both readings’ undercurrent of people trying to stay whole inside difficult circumstances.
A book: Marriage, a History: How Love Conquered Marriage by Stephanie Coontz. This is a genuinely strong match, not a stretch — it’s a clear-eyed, readable history of how marriage itself has changed dramatically over time, which is exactly the kind of context that helps make sense of Jesus’ hard words on divorce in Mark 10. Good background reading if you want more than the surface of that text before Sunday.
A film: Lianna (1983, dir. John Sayles). A quiet, compassionate drama about a woman who leaves an unhappy marriage after falling in love with another woman, and has to slowly rebuild a sense of who she is on her own terms. It’s a gentle, unhurried film rather than a dramatic one — no scandal-for-its-own-sake, just an honest look at what it costs, and what it can open up, to leave a marriage that no longer fits who you are. Worth knowing it includes one tasteful, non-graphic intimacy scene, typical of its era, but nothing that should give a mature audience pause.
8. Notable Dates
A few things happening in the world and the wider church around this Sunday — handy for a line in the notices, a prayer prompt, or just to know what’s in the air.
- 12 August — International Youth Day (UN). Worth a mention if there are young people in the congregation, or a line in the prayers for the next generation.
- 15 August — Mary, the mother of Jesus, is remembered on the church calendar around this date — a quiet nod to her courage if it fits the day.
- 19 August — World Humanitarian Day (UN). A moment to hold aid workers, and anyone serving in crisis zones, in prayer.
- 20 August — William and Catherine Booth, founders of the Salvation Army, are remembered on the church calendar — a couple who put their faith into action for people living in poverty. A good reminder that ordinary conviction can build something enormous.
9. Final Word
A small, practical tip for this particular week: when a reading touches on something as tender as divorce, it’s worth pausing — even just for a breath — before you read it aloud, rather than rushing straight from the previous item into it. That tiny gap gives the room permission to notice that something a bit more sensitive is coming, and gives anyone in the congregation who’s personally touched by it a moment to settle before it arrives. You don’t need to say anything about it. Just the pause does the work.
Whatever else this week brings you, may you lead with a steady hand and a soft heart. May you be gentle with yourself when things don’t go exactly to plan, and may you feel, even briefly, the quiet reward of having helped a room full of people meet something bigger than themselves. Go well.


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