1. Encouragement
If you’re leading this Sunday, thank you. Standing up the front and holding a room’s attention, even for a few minutes, takes something out of you that’s easy to forget about once it’s over – you’re not just reading words, you’re letting a whole congregation watch you do it. It’s okay if your voice wobbles, if you lose your place, if the reading doesn’t land exactly the way you rehearsed it in the shower. Nobody up there has ever done it perfectly, and nobody in the pews is expecting you to.
This week’s readings are, in their own way, about exactly that kind of quiet courage – showing up for someone else even when it costs you something. You’re doing the same thing simply by being willing to stand there. That’s enough.
2. This Week’s Reading
Old Testament – Ruth 1:1–22 – Ruth and Naomi. Read it on Bible Gateway (NRSVue).
“But Ruth said, ‘Do not press me to leave you or to turn back from following you! Where you go, I will go; where you lodge, I will lodge; your people shall be my people, and your God my God.’” (Ruth 1:16, abridged)
New Testament – 2 Timothy 3:1–7. Read it on Bible Gateway (NRSVue).
A quick heads-up before you read it aloud: older translations title this passage with a phrase about “silly women” being led astray. It’s worth knowing that’s a poor translation of a Greek word that really just means “little women” – a term of pity for people being taken advantage of, not an insult aimed at women in general. The letter’s real target is the con-artists doing the exploiting. Worth saying out loud if you use this reading, so nobody in the room hears it the wrong way.
Scripture quotations from the New Revised Standard Version, Updated Edition. Copyright © 2021 National Council of Churches of Christ in the United States of America.
These two readings close out a month that’s given us four very different women from a turbulent stretch of the Bible: Deborah leading with confidence, Jael acting decisively, Jephthah’s daughter grieving what was taken from her, and now Ruth and Naomi – two ordinary women simply staying loyal to each other through famine, migration and loss. After three weeks of drama, the lectionary ends on something quieter and, in its own way, just as powerful.
3. What Richard’s Explored Before
Ruth is well-trodden ground for Richard – he’s preached on her story three times in the last few years: 3 November 2024 (this exact passage, Ruth 1:1–18, under the title “Christianity is a verb,” reading Ruth’s loyalty to Naomi as love shown through action rather than words), 10 November 2024 (Ruth 3–4, paired with the widow’s offering, preached the week after the 2024 US election), and 11 December 2022 (Ruth 3–4 alongside Mary’s Magnificat, for Advent). Even further back, two whole services at a previous congregation read the entire book of Ruth aloud – once for Mother’s Day, once as an all-age “stations” service with pizza dough standing in for gleaned grain.
2 Timothy 3, on the other hand, is genuinely new territory for Richard – nothing in the records suggests he’s preached on it before. That’s worth knowing if you’re the one leading: there’s no well-worn path here to lean on, which can be freeing as much as daunting.
As for the shape of the last couple of weeks: 27 September gave us Jael’s tent peg alongside a very practical instruction about which widows the early church should support; 4 October moved to the harder story of Jephthah’s daughter, paired with Paul’s warm words about the faith passed down through Timothy’s grandmother and mother. This week rounds the whole run off – after three weeks of women acting boldly or bearing a heavy cost, we end with two women simply choosing to stay with each other.
4. Resources
Spill the Beans doesn’t have anything written for this exact pairing of readings – the closest thing in the collection is a resource for Ruth 3–4 alongside Mary’s Magnificat (used for Advent a few years back), which is a different reading and not close enough to count as a match.
Words for Worship does have a genuine match, even though it’s a few years old: a file from 4 November 2018 was built around this very passage, Ruth 1:1–18. It’s worth digging out of the shared folder if you want a starting point, even though the world (and the news cycle) looked pretty different eight years ago. L3 doesn’t have anything on file for this week.
5. Songs
There’s no confirmed record of a song being paired with this exact reading before – the song list we hold is really an inventory rather than a usage log, so rather than guess, it’s honest to say this one’s a fresh choice either way.
A few songs from our own list that fit the week’s themes of loyalty, welcome and belonging:
- Where You Tread (ATW 507) – its first line is almost a direct echo of Ruth’s vow: “Where you tread, I will tread.” About as close a match as our song list holds for this reading. No confident link was found for this one online, so it’s worth pulling the actual sheet music from the folder rather than searching for it.
- Draw the Circle Wide – a song about widening who belongs, which fits Ruth the outsider becoming family.
- Community of Christ – a gentle song about the kind of chosen belonging Ruth and Naomi build together.
Worth a quick look through the hymn-sheet folders for recent Sundays before you settle on anything, just to check none of these have been sung in the last few weeks – and if “Where You Tread” is new to the congregation, it might need a run-through beforehand.
6. Weblinks
A few spots from Richard’s own list of commentary sites worth a look this week:
- Working Preacher – has solid material on Ruth 1, since it’s a genuine reading in the wider church calendar.
- Journey With Jesus
- Bill Loader
- Sacredise
- Uniting Church Lectionary Resources
7. Pop Culture
Songs to sit with in the lead-up to Sunday:
- “Naked As We Came” – Iron & Wine. A quiet, tender song about two people whose paths will eventually part, and choosing to love each other well anyway – not unlike Ruth and Orpah facing the same choice at the same crossroads, one turning back and one staying.
- “Cover Me Up” – Jason Isbell. A raw song about someone choosing devotion and staying, even when it would be easier to walk away – the same shape as Ruth’s vow.
- “Song for Zula” – Phosphorescent. A song that refuses easy, tidy ideas about love and belonging, which suits a story that resists being tidied into a simple romance or a simple family tale.
- “Lullaby for Hugo” – Nat Bartsch. A gentle solo piano piece, good for sitting with the quieter, grief-soaked opening of Ruth’s story before the hope arrives.
- “Retrograde” – James Blake. About someone showing up for another person in a hard moment – a modern echo of Ruth’s refusal to leave Naomi to face her loss alone.
From the library: Chai Time at Cinnamon Gardens by Shankari Chandran (Miles Franklin Award winner). It follows a family who fled war and rebuilt a life and a community in Australia – Ruth and Naomi’s story of migration and belonging, carried a few thousand years forward.
Film: Fried Green Tomatoes (1991) – a much-loved film about a deep, devoted friendship between two women, Idgie and Ruth, that holds a small Southern community together across decades. It’s a lovely, hopeful watch, but worth knowing before you recommend it that it includes a domestic violence storyline handled fairly seriously (though not graphically) – not one to suggest without a heads-up for anyone who might find that hard.
8. Notable Dates
- 11 October – International Day of the Girl Child (UN). Falls on the Sunday itself, and pairs naturally with this week’s readings: Ruth’s voice and choices carry the whole story forward, and 2 Timothy 3 is really about correcting a slur once aimed at women being taken advantage of. Worth a mention in the notices, or a line in the prayers for the girls and young women in our own lives and community.
- 11 October – Ulrich Zwingli (1484–1531), reformer of the Church. A Swiss pastor remembered for preaching straight through whole books of the Bible rather than sticking to set readings – a nice small irony for a week we’re following a lectionary.
- 12 October – Elizabeth Fry (1780–1845), renewer of society. A Quaker woman who, after finding a child’s body in a women’s prison cell, spent her life campaigning for humane treatment of prisoners. A strong pairing with a week already asking whose wellbeing a community takes responsibility for.
- 15 October – Teresa of Avila and John of the Cross, people of prayer. Two Spanish mystics remembered for their honest, sometimes blunt writing about prayer and the hard, dark seasons of faith – Teresa was famous for being wonderfully direct with God, even after a cart accident tipped her into the mud.
9. Final Word
If you take one thing into Sunday, let it be this: you don’t need to explain or defend every hard verse before you read it. It’s okay to read 2 Timothy 3’s line about “silly women,” name gently that it’s been misunderstood and mistranslated for centuries, and then simply move on to Ruth’s vow. Trust the room to sit with both. You don’t have to resolve every tension in the Bible in one service – you just have to hold it honestly, for the time you’ve got.
Whoever you are, however this Sunday goes for you: thank you for showing up and doing this. May you feel, even for a moment while you’re up there, how much this community’s faith, inclusivity and creativity is carried by people just like you.


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